How we deal with the positivity and negativity is what makes us.
Your decisions are always going to be touched by your emotions and that is natural. It happens to all of us. We cannot fully control emotions otherwise we would be classed as being robots. If we could lose emotions then where would be the greatness in our lives?
An example we all face
When you get up in the morning and you look out of the window and see sunshine. How do you feel? Most would feel good and want to see the world. What about if you get up in the morning and it’s cold, windy and raining? Would you want to go out and go to work or school?
Most often enough the environment changes our moods. For myself when I look out of the window in the morning and I either see rain, cloud, fog or it’s very windy and cold, then doesn’t affect how my day will be. To some this may seem strange but the environment is a natural occurrence.
To appreciate the environment as is I find this is a special thing. I’m shocked at people’s reaction sometimes when they say it’s a rainy day in their day is over. Some people cannot deal with bad weather. I would see the rain as a beautiful thing. Think of the positives in it and an example would be plants would then grow and the roads would become cleaner.
In that example the weather is something that happens and it is something that is uncontrollable but we seem to believe that it should be. Our lives go on with or without the weather, naturally, as it’s just an inconvenience. If it rains too much one day, then that should not affect your judgment and should not affect your emotions to the point of being almost depressed. Your emotions are there and you should be grateful that they are. But the problem is the level of emotion could become too negative in whatever situation.
So how do we stop being so negative in the face of a harder situation? Well we need to keep on attaching positive elements to the states that are in front of us. If you look at something in front of you that has chance of being negative, but you look for the positives in there, then the situation becomes nicer. Isn’t that a better a picture to have?
Let’s wrap up!
Things exist in our worlds that can be changed to a more positive outlook. I’m making positive changes too. I for one want to create positive and a clear environment and I think clarity is actually quite important part in this. If whatever you do hasn’t got clarity then how can the judgment be chosen correctly?
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